We have now been parents for over a year, and watching my husband be a father has made me fall in love with Trent in a whole new way. I thought after so many years that I could find a NEW love for my amazing husband, but I have. I watch him with Brantley and I know that there isn't a better father for my child then Trent. I knew I was marrying an amazing man, but watching him become a father has been one of the best experiences of my life. When we were in the hospital having Brantley our favorite baby nurse wrote us a card. In that card she talked about how much she loved that we did everything as a team. She said she hadn't seen a set of parents work so well as a team. I didn't really think this was a big deal. I really thought that is how all married couples did things. I was reminded by our babysitter that not all couples have that opportunity. She and I were talking the other day and her boyfriend works crazy schedules, and this isn't possible for them as much as they wish it was. It reminded me that we are lucky that we have this luxury to be a team, and that I have such a wonderful husband that WANTS to be a team. Some families have this luxury and don't utilize teamwork. Trent is always taking care of us, and I am so very blessed.
Last year for our Anniversary, we spent the night and morning in the ER with Brantley. I was quickly reminded why I married this incredible man. He knew just how to keep my calm and to help me from freaking out. I love my boys so much!
My love for Trenton continues to grow. I feel more attached to him everyday. I joke with him all the time that the song "Better Dig Two" is my motto! HA! I truly wish there were words to describe the intense feeling I have inside. I used to think (when I was a lot younger) that it was so dumb to say "The Love Of My Life" because how do you know that person is the only love you will have in your life. No one ever knows when they will or could lose their spouse, and does that mean that you will never love again just because someone died? I now can say that Trent is the love of my life, and if something were to happen we will address that then! I hope all of my ladies have or will meet a man that will make them feel so very special and loved. I hope all the men out there treat their woman like the queen they are.
This week has been difficult for so many reasons, work, family, bombings and explosions. Driving home today I listened to one of my Keith Urban CD's and listened to a song that describes just how Trenton makes my world so much better in the middle of what seems like a very trying time.
When the sun is hard to find
When it's raining in your eyes
When the shadows block those pretty little blue skies living inside you
When the falling of your tears, makes a candle disappear
When you just can't see the light
Baby, I'll find a way to shine
I'll find a way to shine
So, three years ago today, I married my best friend. We haven't looked back and we are working so hard to make all of our tomorrows better than today!
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